Every girl has that guy who is frustratingly hard to read. He might be a friend, colleague or a bloke you’ve just met and you’re desperate to know whether the signals he is flashing in your direction are purely platonic or something more. Luckily for you, delving into a man’s thoughts isn’t as complicated as you may think; chances are if he shows these signs you’ve got an admirer in your midst.
Signs of Attraction: Constantly Touching You is a Signal that He Likes You
Even subtly: a hand on your arm; a squeeze of your shoulders; a pat on your back. Men yearn to touch things they are attracted to, so if he cannot seem to keep his hands off you whenever you’re together it is likely that he fancies you.
Think of it as a man and a tasty piece of meat; no man can resist from sampling it when a juicy wedge of it is tantalised before him. More delicate in the reality, of course.
Signs of Attraction: Noticing and Remembering Things About You is a Signal that He Likes You
Let’s face it: most guys only memorize things they classify as worth remembering. They might seem like a waste of brain space to everyone else, but nonetheless he secures it in his memory. If he takes note and recalls things about you others cannot, you are right to be suspicious of his intentions.
It can include something you wore on a certain day, the food you ate yesterday evening or even the names of your four bunny rabbits – in age order. Obviously this only goes for information you have told him or that you know he’s seen. Otherwise you may be dealing with a slightly obsessive stalker ...
Signs of Attraction: Spending His Weekends with You is a Signal that He Likes You
Weekends are important times for guys; they are a time for relaxation and doing the hobbies and activities they love. When a guy likes you, he will want to see you and be with you all the time – this includes those precious weekends. Giving up his weekends to spend time with you is a big deal, and you can be sure if he does this constantly that he is searching for something more than just someone to hang out with when he’s got nothing better to do.
Signs of Attraction: Constantly Smiling and Blushing at You is a Signal that He Likes You
There’s a difference between friendly smiling and beaming like the neon lights in Las Vegas. When a guy likes you, he will smile. A lot. He will not be able to stop smiling at you or take his eyes off you. No matter what he is doing, his face will be glowing from grinning. It’s a wonder his face hasn’t set alight from all that happiness.
You might notice that he also tends to blush a lot more easily when he is around you – another likely sign that he has a soft spot in his heart for your affections.
These signals are not sure-fire signs that he is desperately, passionately, head-over-heels in love with you, but if he shows some or all of them there is a high possibility that he is harbouring a fondness for you which he finds difficult to verbalise.
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